There are some songs that we enjoy because of their beautiful tune. Others stay with us because of their meaningful lyrics. For me, Kisiki Muskurahaton Pe Ho Nisaar has always been one such song. I loved listening to it and admired the simplicity of its words. But one incident changed the way I looked at the song forever.
A few months ago, on my wife’s birthday, we decided to celebrate differently. We visited Sawali Nivara Kendra, an old age home. We wanted to donate something to the residents and make the day a little special ourselves.
When we reached there, we found that it was Saturday, and every Saturday they organize a small singing program. The founder M.A. Hussain (who runs this under his NGO, Real Life Real People) was singing old Hindi songs, while others were clapping along with smiles on their faces. The atmosphere was full of warmth. There was no grand stage, no orchestra, no audience judging the performance just people enjoying music together.
As we sat there, my wife quietly looked at me and said, “Why don’t you sing a song for everyone?” How could I say no to her on her birthday 🙂 .
I am fond of singing, but at that moment my mind went completely blank. Out of the hundreds of songs I know, I couldn’t think of a single one. Then, almost magically, “Kisiki Muskurahaton Pe Ho Nisaar” came to my mind.
I started singing.
As the song progressed, I looked around the room. Some of the residents were smiling. A few softly joined in. Others simply listened with their eyes closed. They weren’t listening to a performance, they were living every word of the song.
When I finished, they applauded warmly. But the applause wasn’t what stayed with me.
What stayed with me was the feeling.
Until that day, I had appreciated the song for its wonderful lyrics. But singing it in an old age home gave those words a completely different meaning. Standing in front of people who had seen life’s joys, struggles, successes, losses, relationships, and memories, every line felt real. It no longer sounded like a film song. It felt like a philosophy of life expressed in the simplest possible words.
I realized that the song doesn’t ask us to become extraordinary. It doesn’t speak about wealth, status, or achievements. It quietly reminds us that a meaningful life can be built through simple acts and bringing a smile to someone’s face, offering a helping hand, sharing someone else’s sorrow, and finding happiness in another person’s happiness.
That afternoon, we had gone there thinking we would make someone else’s day a little brighter. In reality, we came back with something much more valuable ourselves.
Even today, whenever I hear “Kisiki Muskurahaton Pe Ho Nisaar”, my mind doesn’t go to the movie or the singer first. It takes me back to that Saturday afternoon at Sawali Nivara Kendra with the smiling faces, the gentle applause, and the quiet realization that some songs are not meant to be just heard.
They are meant to be lived.
Sometimes, all it takes is the right place, the right moment, and the right audience for a familiar song to reveal a meaning that was always there, waiting to be discovered.
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2 comments
It reminds me of something similar.
When my elder daughter, who is a doctor now, turned one and two, we celebrated her birthdays at a Leprosy Home.
With a basket of mangoes in her little hands, she gave one to every patient herself.
That day taught us all about empathy. It touched my heart, my wife’s heart, and hers too.
Even now, she remembers those birthdays so fondly..
I am glad this helped you revisit your fond memories..