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In 2013, I landed in Bangalore for the wedding of my friend’s daughter. I arrived a day earlier and decided to stay with my friend Sri in Marathahalli. I was unaware of the traffic issues in Bangalore. Sri told me to take the Vajra bus, a spacious AC bus with luggage space, from the airport, and he’d pick me up from the bus stop.
Following his instructions, I went to the bus stand within the airport premises. I was pleasantly surprised to see such a good bus stand and buses at the airport. I boarded the bus, placed my luggage flat on the allotted area, and took a seat. The tickets were reasonable. There were a few passengers on the bus. The long, empty roads and the whiff of cool breeze made it a pleasant ride. I’d settled for the 1.5-hour drive, enjoying the scenery.
After about 20 minutes, a passenger got off. The boy had boarded the bus with me and had placed his luggage next to mine, so I instinctively looked behind to check if he was taking his bag. Oh no!! The boy got down without his bag! What followed happened simultaneously. I gasped, and the bus started. I called the driver to stop, and told the conductor the boy had forgotten his bag. The driver saw in the side mirror that the boy was running behind the bus. The conductor gestured for me to relax and rang the bell to stop the bus. The bus stopped; the boy ran up to the bus, whisked his bag, and went without thanking the conductor or driver. The bus doors closed.
Me: (overcoming what just happened, looking at the conductor) Thank God you stopped the bus, the boy remembered his bag after he got down.
Conductor: (nodding) Are you a school teacher?
The conductor’s unexpected question caught me off guard.
Me: (a surprised look and smile) Yes, how did you guess?
Conductor: Your concern for the boy who forgot his luggage, only a teacher can feel like that. It’s not your job, but you take care. Look at the other passengers around; none of them noticed what happened.
Me: You have seen thousands of travelers and are experienced enough to know their professions by their looks/behavior.
Conductor: Yeah, I’ve been working for the last 15 years. I’ve seen a lot of passengers and can tell if they are regular commuters, or outsiders, and fairly guess their professions from how they buy their tickets.
The conductor sat in the seat before mine, turned around, and shared his experiences, including stories of passengers forgetting valuable items, and the bus depot’s lost and found department. He explained how this works. As we chatted, I learned about the intricacies of the bus system and his personal life.
The conversation made the journey enjoyable, and I appreciated the conductor’s sincerity and warmth. The bus ride was a pleasant introduction to Bangalore’s local transportation. Later, I explored Bangalore by bus.
Mam, beautiful writing ! It didn’t feel like reading ; it felt like watching – vivid, immersive and deeply moving. Keep it up. Great 👍
Glad you found it vivid. Thanks for reading! 😁
Experiences especially first time experiences are specially memorable also we tend to compare with incidents from past also in future
Emotional intensity: First-time experiences can evoke strong emotions, making them more memorable.Novelty: New experiences can stimulate our senses and spark curiosity.Reflection: We often reflect on first-time experiences, analyzing what we learned or felt.
True first experiences are memorable and I’m glad I have a great one!
Being in any profession has its own learning and surely will be helpful to them at some point in life. All learnings academic or life lessons teach us and shapes us for the future.
Well said!! 😁
Well written Sneha. So glad I got a chance to meet you in Kashmir. You are beautiful inside and out. God Bless you dear.
Thank you so much for reading, Fiona!! 😁 I’m privileged to meet you! Thanks for your blessings and compliments. ❤️
Interesting! Such conversations have become uncommon. Glad that you had one.
As they say, life’s also a school – you first experience and then learn 🙂
I differ on that. Such conversations happen all the time because everyone wants to be heard, they need assurance and validation.
Beautiful read
Thank you for reading! 😀
Sweet of Sneha miss..as usual!
Awww…!! You see in me as you are. 🙂
A truly lovely anecdote to show how our life experiences shape our own personalities, how we act, show emotions, and care for one another.
Also shows how others view us.
This is truly emotional intelligence in display – knowing oneself and knowing how others view us.
You nailed it, Aditya. 🤩 Our profession shapes our mind and personality. Glad you read it.
Those who know you personally can attest to your captivating personality. Your ability to connect with strangers and show genuine care is truly rare and admirable ❣️.
Thank you for your kind words! I’m grateful to have people in my life who appreciate my efforts to connect with others. I believe that genuine care and empathy can go a long way in building meaningful relationships, and I’m happy to be able to make a positive impact on those around me.
I am glad you had an adventurous but nice welcome to the city. Your nice and kind heart got you what you gave. A lesson that all should learn.
Beautifully said!! 😃
Couldn’t agree more! The ripple effect of kindness is a universal truth. A wonderful philosophy to live by, indeed! 🤩
Really…
Only teacher can do this!.
So proud of my Teacher-Friend Sneha mam.
🙏🙏
Awww, that’s so sweet of you my dear friend Pramila. 😄
I’m happy to make you feel proud! 😂😁