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Do Not Underestimate ‘Patience’ – It’s the Furnace Where Destiny is Forged

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Introduction: A Culture of Urgency

We live in an age where silence is suspicious and waiting is a kind of social sin. Everything around us screams: Now. Faster. Immediate.

We order food in seconds, swipe through potential relationships, and scroll endlessly — hoping life will reveal itself between two notifications. In such a world, patience feels like weakness. It feels like being left behind.

But step back. Look closer. Ask yourself:

Is the wait really empty?  Or is it the very space where life is quietly, powerfully, preparing you?

The Seed Beneath the Soil: The Hidden World of Growth

Imagine a seed planted deep in the earth. It doesn’t sprout overnight. In fact, for weeks or even months, nothing appears above ground. To the eye, it seems dead.

But underground — a miracle is happening.

Roots are spreading. The earth is rearranging itself to nurture this fragile life. The seed is anchoring. Strengthening. Becoming.

Now ask yourself: 
What if your life is doing the same? What if your “stillness” is a time of rooting — not retreat?

Growth often begins in silence.

And transformation rarely announces itself.

The Illusion of Motion vs. the Reality of Maturity

Modern culture equates speed with success. We’re told if it’s not happening quickly, it’s not happening correctly. But real things — meaningful things — don’t rush.

  •  The bamboo tree grows underground for years, building a vast root system. In the sixth year, it shoots up 90 feet in just weeks.
  •   Michelangelo spent years just studying marble and anatomy before carving David.
  • The Buddha, who didn’t just awaken under the Bodhi tree — he endured the darkness under it.

Speed builds skyscrapers. Patience builds temples and cathedrals.

The Spiritual Dimension of Waiting

In every spiritual tradition, waiting is not passive — it is sacred.

  • In the Bhagavad Gita, Krishna teaches: “You have a right to your actions, but never to your results.” This is the discipline of detachment — an invitation to do without clinging, and wait without craving.
  • In Islam, Sabr (patience) is considered half of faith. Not merely enduring hardship, but enduring it with integrity.
  • In Christianity, Jesus retreats into the desert for 40 days — not because He is lost, but because solitude precedes revelation.

Patience, in this light, is not about doing nothing.

It’s about becoming something.

It’s the soul undergoing preparation before it can hold power.

Are You Really Stuck — or Are You Just Uncomfortable With Not Controlling the Outcome?

Impatience is often not about the situation — it’s about our discomfort with the unknown. It’s the mind saying: “If I can’t control it, I can’t trust it.”

But here’s a secret:

Most of what’s worthy in life lies beyond your control. So the question becomes:

Can you trust what’s unfolding even when you can’t see its full design?Can you believe that the cocoon is not the end of the story?

Patience Isn’t About Waiting For Life — It’s Letting Life Work On You

Think of patience as the sculptor’s hand — gentle, precise, enduring.
It removes what you don’t need. It polishes what you can’t see.
It prepares you for what you asked for — in ways you didn’t expect.
 And then, one day, without announcement, you arrive. Not as you were. But as you were meant to be.

Closing Reflection: Sit With the Silence

So here’s your invitation:
Don’t escape the wait.
Enter it. Explore it.
 Ask the silence what it’s shaping in you.
 Because life is not just what happens after the pause.
Sometimes, life is the pause.
 And patience?
Patience is not the cost of your dreams.
 It’s the cradle that holds them until you’re ready to carry them fully.

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Akshay Kothari

Akshay Kothari

A Sailor by heart always who likes to sail his ships without any compass and still wants to find the direction of the light house in an infinite ocean of knowledge. Myname is Akshay Kothari, and I am simply speaking my mind without minding what I speak. I am neither especially clever nor especially gifted. I am only curious.

2 Responses

  1. Especially for people like me Patience is not the biggest strength. Maybe because of the profession I am in. Your reflections are to the point. Very nicely written. Food for thought idd!!

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