In a world where digital payments have become the norm, I cherish the moments where a simple, physical gesture can bring joy and appreciation to someone’s life. I’ve always believed in showing appreciation for people’s efforts, often surprising them with a small gift as a token of gratitude. However, I was once unable to do my good deed due to a lack of cash.
I recall an encounter with an Uber driver in 2018. During our conversation, he shared the exciting news that his daughter had ranked among the top 5 in her 12th board exams. I was thrilled for him and congratulated him on his daughter’s achievement. As we continued our journey, I wanted to gift his daughter ₹500 as a token of appreciation for her hard work. However, I realized I didn’t have any cash on me. The driver did not have his own Paytm or Google Pay. I tried to withdraw money from several ATMs, but unfortunately, none had cash.
The driver’s eager glances and my disappointment made the situation poignant. Although I didn’t promise him, I could sense his hope for a gift. We reached my destination, but the watchman at the site was missing, and I couldn’t borrow money from anyone. I felt miserable that I couldn’t gift someone worthy. The driver observed my attempts to get cash, but he was dignified enough not to say a word about it. As we parted ways, I praised his daughter’s achievement again, blessed her, and bid him farewell.
The experience left a lasting impression on me. Later, I started carrying a small amount of cash with me. To this day, I regret that I couldn’t gift the driver’s daughter.
Did you ever regret not giving a token of appreciation?
I can completely resonate with this experience. I had my share in 2003.
Heartfelt… very nicely articulated.
Glad to know that I’m not alone in such mishaps. 😜 Thanks for reading and writing a comment. 🤗
Two remarkable incidents from my workdays still resonate with me, showcasing the generosity and humility of two exceptional leaders.
The Unexpected Act of Kindness
During a Ganesh Puja celebration, our chief engineer, Mr. Baria, a gentle and strict Parsi gentleman, was approached by workers requesting a “chanda” (donation). Despite not having cash on hand, Mr. Baria didn’t hesitate. He rummaged through his drawer, pulled out his checkbook, signed a blank check, and handed it over, instructing the workers to fill in the amount as needed. The room fell silent, stunned by his selflessness and generosity.
A Similar Gesture of Goodwill
A similar incident occurred with my R&D Director, who found himself in a comparable situation. Feeling embarrassed about not having cash, he took a moment to collect himself and then pulled out a blank check, signing it with a flourish. He handed it over, allowing the recipients to fill in the amount, demonstrating his willingness to give despite the inconvenience.
Both incidents left a lasting impression on me, highlighting the kindness and humility of these leaders. Their actions spoke volumes about their character, transcending their professional roles and inspiring those around them.
Wow! Such selfless acts of kindness truly sets such leaders apart from the crowd. Thanks for sharing the deeds of kindness. 😃
So true in today’s digital world. Your blessings sure reached her
That’s so comforting, Manjeet. I do hope the girl is successfully pursuing her career.
Well written experience Sneha, can feel the desperate attempt made to get money. It happens, but totally agree need to keep some cash in your wallet.
Glad it resonates with you!
Yes …I do not remember not been able to give a token of appreciation, but the digital payment funda really puts u in trouble sometimes ..and I have experienced it many times…
Oh yeah! Digital payment trouble is another story….😜
Beautiful ✨🍀
Thanks dear! 😊
Being stuck in such a helpless situation gives that miserable feeling. But, I am sure that your efforts and the right intention got conveyed. That’s what counts I feel.
The old school well wisher still left in me ensures that I keep cash invariably 😀
That’s comforting, Parth. 😃
I guess, men carry cash.,… Bangalore has spoilt me…..😜
Very true.
Thanks for reading! 😊
Excellent gesture I too give chocolates and try to keep them at home and sometimes in my bag while going for walks. I give them to kids coming to my house or if I see any during my walks. Need not be fir any achievement but just a gesture of love. Sometimes it happens that I see some family begging and there are no shops around to give them food, I refrain from given money rather give them something to eat. I also feel this being uncommon practice of just going out of our way to make someone happy dye to trust factors mainly.
Great that you share your chocolates! But we are talking about two different things.
This is positive diary has left a long lasting impression on my mind. Really thoughful to have at least some cash with us in this digital era.
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How sweet! I’m sure you carry some cash too. 😃